In a recent exploration of modern beauty standards, we uncovered a plethora of expectations that many find unrealistic and exhausting. Our community shared their experiences, particularly highlighting the pressures faced by women and girls.
Let’s delve into some of the top responses:
1. The expectation for women over 30 to adhere to trends typically associated with younger age groups. Many are embracing their own style and refusing to conform to societal norms.
2. The pressure to look fashionable even at the gym, with matching workout sets being promoted as essential. However, comfort often trumps trends for many.
3. The notion of being able to “opt out” of beauty standards, which overlooks the systemic challenges faced by marginalized groups, particularly women of color.
4. The stigma surrounding gray hair and aging, with individuals feeling judged for embracing their natural hair color.
5. The concept of “pretty fat,” which perpetuates unrealistic body standards and excludes those who don’t fit the mold.
6. The pressure imposed on young children, including 9-year-olds, to adhere to beauty trends seen on platforms like TikTok.
7. The normalization of apologizing for not wearing makeup or looking “put together,” perpetuating the idea that one’s worth is tied to appearance.
8. The promotion of extensive skincare routines for children, leading to unrealistic expectations and unnecessary expenses.
9. The idea that certain physical features, such as scars, should be hidden or deemed undesirable.
10. The historical beauty standards passed down through generations, such as the belief that thin thighs are a sign of attractiveness.
11. The trendiness associated with silver hair, leaving individuals who don’t fit the stereotype feeling overlooked.
12. The expectation for fat individuals to have a “skinny face,” perpetuating harmful stereotypes about body shape.
13. The normalization of makeup for young children, contributing to unrealistic beauty standards from a young age.
These are just a few examples of the unrealistic beauty standards that continue to permeate society. It’s time to challenge these norms and embrace diversity in all its forms.
What beauty standards do you find most frustrating? Share your thoughts in the comments below!